
I have become that person in the grocery store.
You know the one.
Standing completely still in the middle of an aisle with two nearly identical products in my hands, flipping them back and forth like I'm reviewing evidence in a court case.
What should be a normal grocery run can easily take me an extra 30 to 45 minutes.
It didn't start because I was suspicious of everything in the supermarket.
It started during my working-out phase.
I was tracking calories, so naturally I started looking at labels.
At first, the label was basically math.
Calories. Serving size. Protein.
Then I started paying closer attention to sodium.
Then sugar.
Then added sugar.
Then I discovered that sugar apparently has enough aliases to maintain several secret identities.
Dextrose. Maltose. Corn syrup. Rice syrup. Cane sugar. Fruit juice concentrate. Invert sugar.
Good grief.
I thought I was just trying to buy breakfast.
But once I started turning packages around, something changed.
I wasn't only counting calories anymore.
I was asking:
What is actually in this?
And that question completely changed the way I shop.
I want my food to look like food
That's probably the easiest way to explain my philosophy.
I like my food as natural as I can reasonably get it.
I'm not expecting everything I buy to have been picked from somebody's backyard that morning. I live in the real world. I have two small children. Sometimes convenience wins.
But when I'm buying something simple, I generally want the ingredients to be simple too.
Bread is a perfect example.
Flour. Water. Salt. Yeast or starter.
Different breads may have seeds, grains, oil or a little sweetener. Fine.
But when I turn over a loaf of bread and the ingredient panel starts looking like a short story, I usually don't want it.
That might mean buying sourdough instead.
It might mean skipping the national brand and getting bread from the farmers market.
I've realized I'm willing to make that trade in certain categories.
Same with butter.
Same with ice cream.
If I'm buying butter, I don't need it to perform twelve other jobs.
And if I'm buying ice cream, I understand perfectly well that I'm buying dessert. I'm not asking it to become a wellness food.
Give me cream, milk, sugar, eggs, vanilla or whatever actually belongs in the flavor.
I'd rather eat real ice cream with a simple ingredient list than something marketed as "better for me" with a list of ingredients I didn't particularly want.
The front and the back are having two different conversations
This is something grocery shopping has taught me.
The front of the package is trying to sell me the food.
The back is telling me what's in the food.
Those aren't the same conversation.
The front says:
NATURAL
MULTIGRAIN
MADE WITH REAL FRUIT
HIGH PROTEIN
NO ADDED SUGAR
PLANT-BASED
Turn it around.
"Made with real fruit" doesn't tell me how much fruit is actually in there.
"Multigrain" tells me there is more than one type of grain. It doesn't necessarily mean those grains are whole grains.
And "no added sugar" doesn't mean the food contains no sugar.
The front gives me a pitch.
The back gives me something I can actually investigate.
Sugar was my gateway
Sugar was probably the first thing that made me realize how much I didn't know.
I knew what sugar was.
At least I thought I did.
Then I started finding sweeteners under all kinds of names.
Thankfully, the Nutrition Facts label now does some of the detective work for us. Total Sugars includes both naturally occurring and added sugars, while Added Sugars tells you how much was introduced during processing.
So I don't have to memorize every possible alias for sugar just to understand the basic picture.
I still read the ingredient list.
But now I have context.
And that's really what I'm looking for.
Then I started reading the ingredients
This is where grocery shopping really slowed down.
Artificial colors.
Preservatives.
Different oils.
Sweeteners.
Stabilizers.
Emulsifiers.
And sometimes just an astonishing number of ingredients in foods that seem relatively simple.
Now, a long ingredient list doesn't automatically mean something is dangerous.
And an ingredient having a scientific-sounding name doesn't automatically make it harmful.
But that doesn't mean the ingredient list is irrelevant either.
I'm allowed to want simpler food.
If I'm comparing two loaves of bread and one contains five ingredients I recognize and want while another contains twenty-five, that's useful information to me.
Someone else may buy the second loaf.
That's fine.
I'm buying the first.
The label has done exactly what it was supposed to do.
It helped me choose.
Then I noticed "bioengineered"
This one stopped me.
Contains a bioengineered food ingredient.
Excuse me?
Engineered how?
Under the USDA's National Bioengineered Food Disclosure Standard, certain foods containing detectable genetic material modified through specified laboratory techniques require disclosure. The USDA's list includes bioengineered forms of foods such as corn, soybeans, canola, sugar beets, potatoes and papaya.
It's important to understand that the disclosure itself isn't a government safety warning. USDA says it doesn't indicate that a bioengineered food is more or less safe than a non-bioengineered version.
And I still don't want to buy it.
Those two things can be true at the same time.
If I have a reasonable non-bioengineered option, that's the one I'm reaching for.
That's my preference.
Understanding what a label means doesn't require me to be indifferent about what I eat.
Artificial colors are an easy no for me
This is another category where I don't spend much time debating myself.
If I can reasonably avoid artificial food coloring, I do.
Do I need my cereal to be electric blue?
No.
Does my child's snack need to turn their tongue fluorescent red?
Also no.
The regulatory conversation around synthetic dyes is changing too. In 2025, the FDA revoked authorization for Red No. 3 in foods and ingested drugs under a specific legal provision after studies found cancer in male rats exposed to high levels. The FDA also said the mechanism involved doesn't occur in humans and that available evidence doesn't support claims that Red No. 3 causes cancer in people.
The FDA has also been working with the food industry toward removing several remaining petroleum-based synthetic dyes from the U.S. food supply.
I don't need to exaggerate that evidence to decide something much simpler:
I don't particularly want artificial colors in my food.
If something doesn't need to be brightly colored at all, even better.
And then there was the olive oil rabbit hole
Extra virgin.
Virgin.
Pure.
Light.
Cold pressed.
Single origin.
Imported.
Blends.
Country of harvest.
Country of bottling.
Why does buying oil suddenly feel like an international trade investigation?
Olive oil is one of those products where I've learned to slow down and read what I'm actually buying.
If the front says olive oil, I want to know what's in the bottle.
Is it 100 percent olive oil?
Is it a blend?
What kind?
Where did it come from?
There are actual standards behind some of the terminology. USDA standards, for example, distinguish grades such as extra virgin olive oil using characteristics including flavor, odor and free fatty acid levels.
But olive oil is a rabbit hole deserving its own Roots & Rhythms story.
For now, my rule is pretty simple:
If I'm paying for olive oil, I want olive oil.
I thought trusted brands would solve this
Eventually, I found my brands.
My bread.
My butter.
My snacks.
My staples.
Great.
No more standing around reading labels.
Except food companies apparently did not agree to freeze their recipes for my convenience.
Products get reformulated.
Ingredients change.
Suppliers change.
Something I've bought for years can suddenly contain something I don't remember seeing before.
And because I already "trust" the brand, I'm less likely to look.
Until one day I happen to turn the package around.
Wait.
Was that always there?
So I've changed what a trusted brand means to me.
It doesn't mean:
I never have to read your label again.
It means:
You've earned a place on my shortlist.
I'll still check.
I don't want food fear. I want food literacy.
This is where I've landed.
Because there's another extreme waiting once you start paying attention.
Every unfamiliar word becomes a toxin.
Every TikTok sends you running back into the pantry.
Every ingredient becomes something else to Google.
I don't want to live like that either.
I want food that looks as much like food as reasonably possible.
I want simple ingredients when I'm buying something inherently simple.
I choose to avoid artificial colors and bioengineered ingredients when I can.
I watch sodium and added sugar.
And if I'm paying for olive oil, I want olive oil.
That's not the same thing as believing everything else is poison.
It's knowing my standard.
Sometimes we're tired.
Sometimes we're traveling.
Sometimes the kids need to eat.
Sometimes the thing I normally buy isn't available.
That's life.
The goal isn't perfection.
It's paying enough attention that most of the time, I'm choosing my food instead of letting the front of the package choose it for me.
Which means I'll probably continue spending entirely too long in the grocery store.
But at least now I know what I'm looking for.
Let's make sense of it.
Until next time,
Tami
Founder and Curious Editor
Roots & Rhythms
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